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My wife and I to meet his mother to town for this year’s Chinese New Year. To my old Nadong live downstairs, her mother heard that I live in the top floor of seven, never refuses to up the. So high ah mother said, looking at the dizzy, how Yao can live person ah. I explained that up to her stay there do not appear after the high, if fear of dizziness, do not look down, and like the feeling of home bungalow, but the Mothers just do not Nuebu. When the light when the mother suffers from Alzheimer’s heavy. On several occasions I returned home, he saw his mother the morning comb in hand, but turn round and round very anxious to find a comb. Was afraid of her old one at home out of accidents, we are determined to give her receipt of the city and themselves to live together, but she refused to elderly people, saying that life in this house without a Get married, do not want to go out, the family chickens and ducks pigs and dogs busy, it can not be separated. Haoshuodaishuo last convention a year off to go put her back home, the mother This Reluctant to follow me into the city. Finally coaxed her to receive the city, but she refused to upstairs. I know that can not be anxious, mother sick, annoyed Her mother would come to naught by Fan Shen left. I Heart a meter, lying in the mother’s ears, his mouth, but also remember that a child do you carry me up the mountain? Mother said Zhakuai do not remember. At that time you have a lazy boy, Pestered to join me in the mountains Zhai persimmon, walk a few steps on the shamelessly did not want me to go back. I said, then you always said I do not have a bundle of firewood heavy, bent on I eat a little fat. Now you see, your son faster to 150 pounds, and her mother you carry me back again to try to see if you can not move back too me? Han Xiao soon as his mother said, Silly boy, you still have a long National Cheng Kung University and I were naughty. I said, you let me back back you see I can not move back too you. I Carrying a flower garden you turn in this circle, to try my strength. Mother said I was nonsense, tired get on the ground is not fun. I said nothing, and a child were you back Me, but now you have a son, back to back on while still accounts. http://watchesuksale.spaces.live.com/

But let them "replica watches" to the parents of unconditional love, we need to listen to them, make them feel understood and accepted. In particular, young people need to be listening, be understood, because they are subject to many pressures, but no place to express them; the other hand, the impact due to endocrine Ring, the child’s emotions rather unstable, if the parents understand them, will be helpful to them. Third, the need for independent A person’s life there are two independent personality development period, one at the age of two, one in twelve or thirteen years old. These two periods of development if they are, To prevent, it will affect their lives.

Of course, these two periods of the parents, their children are the most difficult period, parents of a child to start out the safety insurance Card, external independence to explore is by no means an easy task. Whose parents have begun to realize gradually away from the kids themselves, will be uncomfortable. This time Designate the parents the need for greater patience and magnanimity, to allow them to try out of the family and rely on small-world, and can always give them care, support and drum Li. The need for independence is very important.

If a child in these two phases have not been encouraged and supported, his sense of self will be issued Health and confusion, difficult or even weak phenomenon. When he grew up, there will be difficulties in making decisions is difficult to trust themselves and others, often according to other people’s Of ideas and views to act, have an aversion for a separate and distinct views. Obviously, if so, his inner conflict would affect him and the outside world to To. Fourth, the need for achievement Everyone needs "accomplishments" some things, self-confidence, self-esteem will thus be established. Children in particular, needs to be encouragement and guidance, their own Independently to complete certain things. This achievement is a great demand for relevance. In the relevant psychological theory, the age of three to six years old at this stage is to train One achievement, self-confident and crucial period. As parents, how it can meet the child’s needs?